喃喃自语

大地一年有四季,春天：万象更新,夏天：朝气蓬勃,秋天：落叶归根,冬天：万里飘雪...

人的一生里，不也有着不同的季节么？
孩提时代，我们庆祝生日，儿童节；青年时代，我们依旧有着不同的节庆要过，日子久了，偶尔还会收到'红炸弹’，又有可能会陆续听到一些不幸的消息...

当喜事和丧事的比例成对比时，不得不提醒自己，你已经迈入人生的另一个阶段了，而且现实的残酷越来越明显，就摆在眼前！

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现实的考量，往往会影响个人的决定和思路，这点不容置疑。然而，如果不是当初的梦想和憧憬，我们又如何支撑到此时此刻呢？

“人生有多少个十年啊？何不痛痛快快活一场!" 这句话，说得洒脱，但也不是没有它的道理，只要自认没有白活了，又有什么好遗憾的？

怕的只是终究一辈子要在别人的眼光下生活，永远无法活出自我！

这不是可悲，是什么？

变数

要这么办 还是 怎么办

舍近求远 还是 按部就班

随心所欲 还是 草率了事

孤掷一注 还是 孤军作战

还是？

Everything

故事裡的 起承轉合 有一些忘記
做了多少錯誤的選擇
原來波折 才暗示著 該走的方向
指引你我來到這一刻

就算 別人都說 我們沒什麼出息
不可能會這樣輕易放棄

*Cause You're My Everything
就一個原因 讓我勇敢面對這個世界
想給你 Everything
不管用多少個明天 永遠從此刻開始算起
你的愛是我的 Everything

遼闊天際 求和相遇 有多少機率
多少煙火 墜落無痕跡
因為幸福 沒有捷徑 難免要繞道
不被看好 越是要走到

就算別人都說 我們沒什麼出息
不可能會這樣輕易放棄

#你就是 Everything
就這個原因 讓我勇敢面對這個世界
想給你 Everything
隻要你說一聲願意 所有的未來才有意義
你的愛是我的 Everything

*#

我也逛厨房去~

第一次着手做蛋挞，想不到还似模似样，虽然不能媲美外面卖的，不过吃过的人都想再尝一个，那种满足的感觉，不言而喻~

食谱和做法是参考他人部落格，简单方便！

Chocolate

Have been looking for more elaboration of this clip, to find the meaning underlying it, found it today finally...

But it's in Mandarin, will translate it later, if i am capable enough =p

Link : http://opinions.sinchew-i.com/node/11197?tid=17

Author : 郑丁贤

见笑了~

If you ask me what I have observed in the short clips released recently by 15Malaysia, my answer would be “myself”.

In “Chocolate” by Yasmin Ahmad, the mother of a Chinese family, owner of the grocery store, wants the boy (her son) to leave ‘here’, because ‘here’ (the land) is not belongs to him; he will not have bright future if he stays.

The boy is not willing to leave because he claims that he meets a lot of friends ‘here’, on the other hand, he doubts that the reason his mother asking him to leave is because she wants to be with her boyfriend.In the argument, a Malay girl comes to the grocery store to buy battery and chocolate. The boy is attracted by the gentle young girl, the atmosphere is relaxed down.

All of a sudden, the mother shouts from the back, “Why are you having such a long conversation with the Malay girl?” The atmosphere turns intense again, the girl lacks of 5 cent, and the boy takes back the chocolate.The girl walks away disappointingly, the boy wishes to give her the chocolate, meanwhile, the mother speaks again, the boy dispels his thought, leaves behind the regrets.

This 2-minutes-plus short story, perhaps, it is not a story, only a scenario. The scenario of a story, or may be the scenario of the society.

Yasmin managed to portray the alienation Malaysian Chinese feel about themselves, and the contradiction in emotions. “Here” does not give you a fair chance, no future. Only by leaving “here”, you will get a better prospect.

However, the boy has a deep feeling towards ‘here’. There might be scholarships and opportunities out there, but, the place is an alien to him, he will lose all the connection he has here.

The appearance of the Malay girl, is a kind of catalyst, represents the connection of the relation in the society. However, the catalyst has only temporary effect. The sound of the mother, representing the inherent stereotype and prejudice of the society, also strength that refuse to change, pulls everything back to the original situation.

I have some dignified feeling after watching the clip.

Everybody does not like the way the mother talks, but, we can sense that the same thoughts are found in almost every Chinese family. Everybody feels sorry for the boy, he should be more open and warm, without limiting himself about what he should do.

In fact, the Chinese living in Malaysia have too much worries and indecisive thinking; especially when they need to express themselves in the society and the political life.

That’s why I said, everybody can see ‘themselves’ through the clip.

This short clip by Yasmin Ahmad, was the finding she found by observing the contradiction the Chinese face living in Malaysia. She did not suggest a way or give a conclusion; maybe she had no clue too. She just pointed out the question, so that everybody can spend some time to think about it.

名不正，言不顺

公司没有挂名，能正常运作么？
组织没有架构，能办妥事么？
课程没有内容，能教学么？
婚姻没有爱情，能长久么？

人，
没有基本常识，能讨生活么？
没有专业知识，能掌舵么？
没有身份，能说服他人么？
没有地位，能指正他人么？

所以，选择暂时沉默，只为了蓄势待发~

不是我的错

你有勇于认错的勇气吗？

姑且不论你的身份地位、家世背景，
如果发现自己犯了错，你会坦然面对自己的失误吗？

还是，
你总觉得自己会犯下这样的错，
完全是因为他人导致的？

就是因为他忘了通知我，我才不知道今天的会面，
就是因为他忘了提醒我，我才会赶不上这次的进度，
就是因为他...

并不是因为我对事情漫不经心，
也不是因为我办事不力，

只是因为他没有督促我完成我责任范围内的差事！

这种‘千错万错都不是我的错‘的态度，着实让我上了人生宝贵的一课~