同理心

同理心是什么？
简单来讲，就是设身处地为他人着想。

说易行难

当你一味地要求别人接受你的想法和思维时，你有没有站在对方的立场为他想一想呢？

他为什么会做出这样的举动？
他为什么会坚持己见？
他为什么会希望你也可以接受他的想法呢？

一个真正想要了解别人的人，是会站在别人的观点来探讨问题的症结，而不是被自己既有的固定印象框住了...

人类都是自私的，当不利己的事物发生时，通常他们只会抱着“事不关己，己不操心“的态度来应对，无可厚非啊！

我突然想起一个我亲身经历的体会--- 在一次的旅行中，我们住进了家庭式旅馆，其中有一家人，父亲截肢了，需要用拐杖步行。有一晚，我们刚好一起出门，他们在前，我们殿后，在锁门的同时，那位父亲一个箭步地下了楼梯去，而同行的朋友，就在等电梯。我一时有感而发地说："人家行动不便都用楼梯去了..."得到的回应是："那,这干我什么事？"

哈哈，我说那一句话的同时，绝没有想过会得到这样的回应。我只是觉得，既然大家是一起出远门的，适当的时候就该给他打打气，这不花钱，但也许他会感受到那一份心意，就算没有，我也会觉得我曾真心地替他加油！ =）

不过，不是每个人都会和我一样，想要表达那没有商业价值的心意，因为，事不关己嘛！何必自找麻烦？

你怎么说？

喃喃自语

大地一年有四季,春天：万象更新,夏天：朝气蓬勃,秋天：落叶归根,冬天：万里飘雪...

人的一生里，不也有着不同的季节么？
孩提时代，我们庆祝生日，儿童节；青年时代，我们依旧有着不同的节庆要过，日子久了，偶尔还会收到'红炸弹’，又有可能会陆续听到一些不幸的消息...

当喜事和丧事的比例成对比时，不得不提醒自己，你已经迈入人生的另一个阶段了，而且现实的残酷越来越明显，就摆在眼前！

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现实的考量，往往会影响个人的决定和思路，这点不容置疑。然而，如果不是当初的梦想和憧憬，我们又如何支撑到此时此刻呢？

“人生有多少个十年啊？何不痛痛快快活一场!" 这句话，说得洒脱，但也不是没有它的道理，只要自认没有白活了，又有什么好遗憾的？

怕的只是终究一辈子要在别人的眼光下生活，永远无法活出自我！

这不是可悲，是什么？

变数

要这么办 还是 怎么办

舍近求远 还是 按部就班

随心所欲 还是 草率了事

孤掷一注 还是 孤军作战

还是？

Everything

故事裡的 起承轉合 有一些忘記
做了多少錯誤的選擇
原來波折 才暗示著 該走的方向
指引你我來到這一刻

就算 別人都說 我們沒什麼出息
不可能會這樣輕易放棄

*Cause You're My Everything
就一個原因 讓我勇敢面對這個世界
想給你 Everything
不管用多少個明天 永遠從此刻開始算起
你的愛是我的 Everything

遼闊天際 求和相遇 有多少機率
多少煙火 墜落無痕跡
因為幸福 沒有捷徑 難免要繞道
不被看好 越是要走到

就算別人都說 我們沒什麼出息
不可能會這樣輕易放棄

#你就是 Everything
就這個原因 讓我勇敢面對這個世界
想給你 Everything
隻要你說一聲願意 所有的未來才有意義
你的愛是我的 Everything

*#

我也逛厨房去~

第一次着手做蛋挞，想不到还似模似样，虽然不能媲美外面卖的，不过吃过的人都想再尝一个，那种满足的感觉，不言而喻~

食谱和做法是参考他人部落格，简单方便！

Chocolate

Have been looking for more elaboration of this clip, to find the meaning underlying it, found it today finally...

But it's in Mandarin, will translate it later, if i am capable enough =p

Link : http://opinions.sinchew-i.com/node/11197?tid=17

Author : 郑丁贤

见笑了~

If you ask me what I have observed in the short clips released recently by 15Malaysia, my answer would be “myself”.

In “Chocolate” by Yasmin Ahmad, the mother of a Chinese family, owner of the grocery store, wants the boy (her son) to leave ‘here’, because ‘here’ (the land) is not belongs to him; he will not have bright future if he stays.

The boy is not willing to leave because he claims that he meets a lot of friends ‘here’, on the other hand, he doubts that the reason his mother asking him to leave is because she wants to be with her boyfriend.In the argument, a Malay girl comes to the grocery store to buy battery and chocolate. The boy is attracted by the gentle young girl, the atmosphere is relaxed down.

All of a sudden, the mother shouts from the back, “Why are you having such a long conversation with the Malay girl?” The atmosphere turns intense again, the girl lacks of 5 cent, and the boy takes back the chocolate.The girl walks away disappointingly, the boy wishes to give her the chocolate, meanwhile, the mother speaks again, the boy dispels his thought, leaves behind the regrets.

This 2-minutes-plus short story, perhaps, it is not a story, only a scenario. The scenario of a story, or may be the scenario of the society.

Yasmin managed to portray the alienation Malaysian Chinese feel about themselves, and the contradiction in emotions. “Here” does not give you a fair chance, no future. Only by leaving “here”, you will get a better prospect.

However, the boy has a deep feeling towards ‘here’. There might be scholarships and opportunities out there, but, the place is an alien to him, he will lose all the connection he has here.

The appearance of the Malay girl, is a kind of catalyst, represents the connection of the relation in the society. However, the catalyst has only temporary effect. The sound of the mother, representing the inherent stereotype and prejudice of the society, also strength that refuse to change, pulls everything back to the original situation.

I have some dignified feeling after watching the clip.

Everybody does not like the way the mother talks, but, we can sense that the same thoughts are found in almost every Chinese family. Everybody feels sorry for the boy, he should be more open and warm, without limiting himself about what he should do.

In fact, the Chinese living in Malaysia have too much worries and indecisive thinking; especially when they need to express themselves in the society and the political life.

That’s why I said, everybody can see ‘themselves’ through the clip.

This short clip by Yasmin Ahmad, was the finding she found by observing the contradiction the Chinese face living in Malaysia. She did not suggest a way or give a conclusion; maybe she had no clue too. She just pointed out the question, so that everybody can spend some time to think about it.

名不正，言不顺

公司没有挂名，能正常运作么？
组织没有架构，能办妥事么？
课程没有内容，能教学么？
婚姻没有爱情，能长久么？

人，
没有基本常识，能讨生活么？
没有专业知识，能掌舵么？
没有身份，能说服他人么？
没有地位，能指正他人么？

所以，选择暂时沉默，只为了蓄势待发~

不是我的错

你有勇于认错的勇气吗？

姑且不论你的身份地位、家世背景，
如果发现自己犯了错，你会坦然面对自己的失误吗？

还是，
你总觉得自己会犯下这样的错，
完全是因为他人导致的？

就是因为他忘了通知我，我才不知道今天的会面，
就是因为他忘了提醒我，我才会赶不上这次的进度，
就是因为他...

并不是因为我对事情漫不经心，
也不是因为我办事不力，

只是因为他没有督促我完成我责任范围内的差事！

这种‘千错万错都不是我的错‘的态度，着实让我上了人生宝贵的一课~

马不停蹄的十五天

Nürnberg --> Meminggen --> London --> Dublin --> Belfast --> Liverpool --> Manchester --> London --> Amsterdam --> Nürnberg

十五天，在一个又一个的城市里穿梭，看尽人生百态，但是，应该还没看透，要仔细观察住在每个城市里面的人，单凭肉眼，又怎能洞悉他人的心思呢？

到处都遇见马来西亚人，我们到访的每个城市，都住着一群马来西亚华人，都是朋友或朋友的同学。在异乡遇到他们，用着大家都熟悉的语言和语气交谈，那种亲切的感觉非墨笔能形容...

好多马来西亚华人都到外地谋生、升学，为什么？是国家不要我们，还是我们放弃她了？

我每次都爱问他们一个问题：你打算在这常住吗？还是会想要回去？绝大部分的‘游子‘都会选择‘我会回去的‘。

我们不是不想为国家贡献，不是不想为她流血汗，但是，当看到那些所谓的领袖的所作所为，所有热诚都被拿去贴冷屁股了，何苦？

人事物，‘人‘这个因素，扮演举足轻重的角色，如果不是因为亲爱的家人和朋友，也许很多人就不会对她有所眷恋，这个国家会迟早面临绝灭，就像恐龙，就算有多强而有力的尾巴，和多凶爆的个性，最后还不是败得销声匿迹，因为老天爷也看不过眼了！

我有比较自私的想法，我想等我死后，天才来收她，可不? 因为实在看不下去~

游记怎么会写成胡言乱语？？0.o

转载 （2）

当我拥有你的时候，我想拥有全世界，当我拥有了全世界，我却忘了我还拥有着你...


http://oonggimkooi.blogspot.com/2009/07/blog-post_04.html

值得回顾～

果然，写作需要灵感，有些心情和文句，你叫再我重写一遍，也不一定能找回那击中要害的感觉！！

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每一次的相聚，只是应证了世事都在变迁的道理　
每一次的争执，也只代表面对的现实问题变多了
每一次的不舍，说的只是我们投入得太深了

情感这码事，你我都懂得太少了，却往往不自觉地要求很多

其实我们都懂
适时的放手会是最好的结果…

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明明就是一件正常不过的事
为何在你眼里
却成了十恶不赦？

明明就是一件光敏磊落的事
为何在你面前
我得畏畏缩缩去应对？

这纠缠到底何时能厘清？

他们说：时间可以冲淡一切
但
我搞不懂的是：时间可以冲淡你的鄙视和偏见吗？

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也许伪装自己，就是最好的保护色
藏住了欲望
藏住了喜乐
藏住了哀愁
藏住了所有的秘密

伪装
一定是虚伪的表现吗？
如果
伪装
只是为了停止受伤害？

伪装
一定是隐蔽的行为吗？
如果
伪装
只是为了让你更心安理得？

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我沉默，并不代表我认同，

同样的，

我适从，更不代表我漠视这一切…

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每一个人，都得为自己所做的事负责任，这句话，我懂!!!!!!

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亲爱的,当你说爱我的时候,你是真的这么想吗?

亲爱的,当你说你会保护我的时候,你真的会这么做吗?

那么,

为什么当我难过的时候,你都没有安慰我?

为什么当我孤单的时候,你都没有在我身边?

难道你心中都没有爱吗?

原来,

你的爱满满一大箩,但是却不是为我准备的…

我明白,是时候放手了…

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如果
一片落叶是树的一份伤悲,
那我的悲伤拥有多少片的树叶?

如果
天上的雨滴是我对你的思念,
那毛毛雨抑或暴风雨，
才能表达对你的眷恋?

我不要落叶
来轻吟我的伤悲

我不要雨滴
来诉说我的思念

因为我已不再悲伤
也不再对你眷恋……

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最浪漫的事- 赵咏华

有些事，永远不会忘记
有些歌，百听不厌
有些人，永远想念

背靠着背坐在地毯上
bei kao zhe bei zuo zai di tan shang
听听音乐聊聊愿望
ting ting yin yue liao liao yuan wang
你希望我越来越温柔
ni xi wang wo yue lai yue wen rou
我希望你放我在心上
wo xi wang ni fang wo zai xin shang

你说想送我个浪漫的梦想
ni shuo xiang song wo ge lang man de meng xiang
谢谢我带你找到天堂
xie xie wo dai ni zhao dao tian tang
哪怕用一辈子才能完成
na pa yong yi bei zi cai neng wan cheng
只要我讲你就记住不忘
zhi yao wo jiang ni jiu ji zhu bu wang

我能想到最浪漫的事
wo neng xiang dao zui lang man de shi
就是和你一起慢慢变老
jiu shi he ni yi qi man man bian lao
一路上收藏点点滴滴的欢笑
yi lu shang shou cang dian dian di di de huan xiao
留到以后坐着摇椅慢慢聊
liu dao yi hou zuo zhe yao yi man man liao

我能想到最浪漫的事
wo neng xiang dao zui lang man de shi
就是和你一起慢慢变老
jiu shi he ni yi qi man man bian lao
直到我们老得哪儿也去不了
zhi dao wo men lao de na er ye qu bu liao
你还依然把我当成手心里的宝
ni hai yi ran ba wong dang cheng shou xin li de bao

Cultural Shock

忽然有点担心

怕我回家以后
会有Cultural Shock
会反而不习惯从前的生活

虽然这是两个月以后才需要担心的事

而且也不确定它到底会不会发生

但是，

脑袋里却突然浮现这种想法

不过，

我一定要回家！！！

I Have Been to Paris~

巴黎--多么让人响往的地方

从电影里看到的卢浮宫(Musee du Louvre)
从杂志上看到的埃菲尔铁塔(Tour Eiffel)
从别人口中听到的巴黎老佛爷购物商场(Galeries Lafayette)
还有香榭麗舍(Avenue Des Champs Elysees),
凯旋门(Arc de Triomphe),
圣心教堂(Sacre-Coeur) ,
红磨坊(Moulin Rouge),
圣母院(Notre Dame),
索邦大学(Sorbonne),
先贤祠(le Pantheon),
卢森堡公园(Jardin du Luxembourg),
塞纳河(la Seine)等等...

我都用我双脚把这土地踏过一遍...

不可思议，我终于看见巴黎了！多么真实却又犹如一场春梦，我多么希望能再呆多一会儿...

就那么一会儿，好让我把我不愿看到的情景彻底删除！　

提醒：我的朋友啊，别贪便宜而选择留宿在红灯区，因为你是女人，而且还是黄皮肤黑眼睛的女人！！

别把另一半当孩子看（转载自吴淡如部落）

For those who are in love, please click the following link:

http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_498fd66f0100dmc0.html

Enjoy~~~

有一种奇特的Feeling

就在今晚
我有一种奇特的Feeling

不知道什么原因
我突然很想到世界各个地方去
到我朋友们游学的地方
去看他们，和那城市

我想环游这个世界
在我还年轻气盛
和还有冲劲的时候

不知道什么原因
我最近常常找我以前的同学聊天
MSN,Facebook,Email
任何管道，连接了就聊

话题虽然还不至于是缅怀过去
但是听到大家最新的近况
我都会莫名的兴奋
有的，结婚了
有的，从国外留学回来，准备大展拳脚
有的，正准备到外国转一趟
有的，还在情海里浮浮沉沉
有的，准备毕业，在上班了

就在今晚
我有一种奇特的Feeling

虽然，
我不知道我回国后
会走怎样的路
到底要选择怎样的路

虽然，
我不知道我回去了以后
还有没有机会出来这样游荡
还有没有本钱出来这样挥霍

虽然，
我不知道我和我的朋友、同学们
还会不会像从前一样
继续嬉闹、耍宝

但是
就在今晚
我有一种奇特的Feeling

后记：
“人生啊
我要出走～～继续出走～～
哪怕还要再等若干年后”

"Perfect" ending for the night

As usual, I walked all the way back from Maxfeld U-bahn station, and it was already 1140pm... When I reached the door of my hostel, there were two guys who were just about to come down from a taxi..

I opened the door and got in. Suddenly I heard one guy saying, "Wie heißt du?", while I was checking my mailbox. My deutsch is not that good yet, but I realised that he was actually talking to me, so I turned back.

He wanted to introduce himself and shake hands with me. Well, then he started to speak a lot of deutsch which obviously i do not understand.
" Ich spreche nicht Deutsch"
"Oh, so do u speak English?"
"Yea..."
"Ehm, do you want to come with us to the party?"
"......"
"Do you stay in Nürnberg?"
"Yes, I stay HERE ( the hostel)"

Then he started to talk alot of stuffs which I have forgotten. And his friend, trying to pull him away, but..... I think he is abit high or drunk, but I couldn't smell any alcohol from him=p

Oh ya, he asked me what language I speak
"Spanish? French?"
"NEIN, I speak English and Chinese"
"Oh, so you are from China!"
"No, Malaysia"
"Ehm, let me think where is Malaysia.. What is the capital city? "
"Kuala Lumpur...?"
"Oh, you mean the one with the tallest building...."
"Yes.... ehm" I wanted to explain, but it is too dangerous to talk with strangers, especially during late night, I just want to escape!!!
"You know what am I talking about? No, you dont...."
"Yes, uhm, no I don't"

"SO, you do not want to go to the party with us?"
"No, I just came back from somewhere. Enjoy your night"

I opened the door to the staircase and escaped while he was still mumbling with his friend....walking towards their room...

HMMM, if I were outside of the building, and somebody come and approach me like that, I think I will R-U-NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

wahahaha~

Ps: Luckily, besides shaking hands, he didn't come any closer to me, I wore my thick jacket anyway =p

Thanks for being so nice..

I almost wanted to hug somebody tonight...
Nah, i meant "Friendship Hug", do not get me wrong!

How could someone be so kind and nice? Who is willing to get his hands wet for no reason?

I think that's not a good way to behave, as someone might take what you do for granted! You know, human beings are selfish in a way, so THINK FOR YOURSELF!!

No one is going to think for you if you are not doing that...

Anyhow, Thanks for the trouble man!!! I do appreciate it!

Terima Kasih~~~ =)

男人，你都在想什么？

他说：“她最近到哪儿去都没通知我，让我很担心。想要问她，又被她恶言相向。”

他说：“我们从小就认识，没想到...我觉得她好像背着我做了一些事，不过，那只是我的感觉...”

你爱她吗？

他说：“事情已经发展到我不能控制的地步，这不是我能回答的问题。”

他说：“我们之间的摩擦已经很久了，可是她始终不肯坐下来好好谈谈。”

你打算怎样？

他说：“太多的因素，让整件事变得很复杂。这不是我一个人能做得了的决定。”

我说：“老兄，爱一个人和习惯让一个人依赖，是两码子的事！”

语毕

矛盾

左？右?
向前冲？止步观望?

太多的选择
会让我乱了阵脚

太多的方案
会让我不知所措

可是，
没得选择的时候

我又懊恼
为什么我只有这个选择？

... ... ... ......

九十天里踏遍的土地

从来没有想过，会有那么一天，我可以踏在这片土地，然后悠闲地度过半个年头...
在头三个月里，不慌不忙地，我从德国的纽伦堡 (Nürnberg)

到了慕尼黑 (Munich)

然后，国王湖 (Konigsee)


接着，我踏出德国，走到奥地利的萨尔茨堡 (Salzburg)

哈尔施塔特 (Hallstatt)


和维也纳 (Vienna)

再来，回到德国的汉堡 (Hamburg)


再出征到捷克的布拉格 (Prague)


最后，终止在德国的维尔茨堡 (Würzburg)


和班贝格 (Bamberg)

每一个风景，每一个建筑物，我都试着去感受、去体会，这是我难得的机会...

假如我有旧地重游的机会，你想要和我一起出走吗？=）

迷--茫

就在这一天
离家的第九十天
我陷入一片迷惘...

忽然觉得眼前一片漆黑
伸手不见五指
那盏明灯在哪
怎么不见了踪影?

是我把它熄灭了
还是
我从来就没把它点着?

倘若是这样
未来的路
谁来给我指引？

我与他的不同之生活篇

来了德国这么久，对人事物的观察也该有些心得了吧？！=）
且让我来说给你听...

1) 我每次下厨需要约四十五分钟，包括准备材料及清洗，而我的屋友只需从冰箱里拿出冷冻比萨，放入烘炉里，费时五分钟！
2）超市里，冷藏品永远多过新鲜肉类，因为这里不是半岛
3）购买日用品时，你必须自备纸袋或环保袋，塑料袋是要付钱的
4）除了超市，街上最多的就是Doner Kebab店和Bakery(Pub和Club除外）
5) 在这里，你所丢的每一样垃圾是要分类的
6）在餐厅里最便宜的饮品是--啤酒咯！
7）自然的瓶装水是有气的，要喝“正常”的白开水，请认明Stilles Mineralwasser
8) 室内(Pub和Club除外）是完全禁止抽烟的，所以在所有的大门外，不难发现一大群人站着吞云吐雾，就算校园里，也是这样，这些人，年纪小小就烟来酒来，小女子佩服！！不过，他们说抽烟只是为了保暖~
9）在德国，搭乘公共交通工具是很方便的事，因为所有的地下铁，巴士，和电车都非常准时，说明一点零三分到，你零四分才到达车站，等下一轮吧！
10）大部分的人都拥有自行车，多环保！而且，几乎每一条街上都有人行道和自行车道的规划，多体贴！
11）使用扶手梯时，请靠右站，左边是让赶时间的人走的
12）几乎每一个人都喝啤酒，不论任何交际场合，只要你一瓶在手，就可走天涯,哈哈~

到此为止，下集再续~

Schön Abend!Tschüs

错过---过错

如果我问你：
你曾经为错过了什么而难过吗?

你会怎么回答呢？
金钱？感情？时间？朋友？家人？还是什么？
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金钱没了，可以再赚回来
感情吹了，还可以再接再厉
时间没了，把握从今以后的日子
朋友跑了，还有挽回友谊的可能
家人走了，以后你们也会在同样的路上再相遇

但是，

错过了爱惜自己的机会，

你就再也无法追回你错过的以上种种...

是不？

疑惑--不解

到底是什么样的力量
会让一个人改变他一直以来的生活方向？

到底是什么样的信仰
会让一个人抛弃养育他的家人、而投向陌生人的怀抱里？

到底是什么样的心态
会让一个人觉得只有他坚持的信念是无懈可击的？

到底是什么样的人
会选择只称夫家的人为家人，而忘了有血缘关系的双亲和家人？

到底是什么样的女儿
会只想要和家公家婆吃遍美食，而忘了有住家饭随时供应的娘家？

更甚的是，
娘家从来没对他有什么不好

跌倒的时候，还不时由双亲挽着你去敷药么？！

这样的无情，让我觉得陌生可怕！！
这样的婚姻，更叫我心寒！！！

I Must Spell This Out...!!!

Food I miss at the moment...
No. 1 Laksa
No. 2 Rojak
No. 3 Satay
No. 4 Nasi Lemak
No. 5 Hokkien Char
No. 6 Wan Tan Mee
No. 7 Mee Goreng
No. 8 Pasembur
No. 9 Ice Kacang
No. 10 Milo Ais
No. 11 Pork Vinegar
No. 12 Crab Rice
No. 13 Tomato Crab
No. 14 Roti Canai
No. 15 Belacan Fried Chicken
No. 16 Chicken Wing
No. 17 Hong Kong Chee Cheong Fun
No. 18 Scallop
No. 19 Tomyam soup (I got the paste here, so i m not missing it that much =p)
No. 20 All the Penang Local food not stated above

Not going to search pics for this blog, do not want to be dehydrated because of non stop drooling.... @#$&@(*@#@##

No more english~

春天来了
街上的人群多了
孩子们的打闹声也多了份生气

然而，
广场上满满的人群
课堂上熙攘的同伴

只是更加彰显
我内心澎湃不已的空洞

从来不知道寂寞和安静可以大声得如斯可怕

Missing home~

M-I-S-S
M--I--S--S
M---I---S---S

I know this is the once in a lifetime chance for me to stay overseas,
I know not everyone has the opportunity to live the way I do,
I know they are putting high hopes upon me in whatever I do,
I know... I knew...

You cannot imagine things until you really face them,
You cannot make the conclusions until you are in the situation.

And now,

With the amount of courage and energy I have,

I might choose to go back to where I belongs to,
I do not need wealth to make me happy,
I do not need status to make me cheerful,

All I want is to

be able to be with you all the time, and
enjoy the life I have been living for more than 2 decades...

Tell me I have the right to choose.... =)

One month after the last post

I have been lazying around... swt

I have to prepare three meals for myself everyday,where the lunch and dinner will usually take away my one hour for preparation, cooking and cleaning up. Then i usually eat with MovieS, which will take another one hour... So basically, time is flying, in here.

Today is the second day of our Easter break, and every shop is closed today, Sunday and the following Monday, that's why the whole week i have been busying shopping around for groceries, to stock them up. =p

Many things happened in this one month period. People go, People die. Then we face challenges but we are lucky enough as the only thing we lost here, is money! I prefer losing my currency notes than any other belongings, just because i know i can earn them back in future, i bet I WILL! =D

Will try to keep up the momentum of updating blog, i love reading others' blog, and leaving comments there, but too lazy to write myself one. =p

This is the second month, me alone in a foreign land, if i can make it through, maybe i will prefer to stay away from my homeland. It's best if i can bring all my family and friends with me. haha
Then i think i will need a small island, and we can turn it into a tourist spot, and everyone of us can earn a living there. wakaka~~~ wild imagination!

Uploaded some photos in facebook. Add me lah~

Before i am here....

This is my first flight, Penang to Bangkok. To be frank, it is really a very new(or strange?!) experience for me, to leave the family and to board flight to somewhere else....where i have never thought of i will be at in my life.

Then when i get my food, it's lagi a shock..=p Have been getting feedback saying that the food in the plane is un-eat-able. I feel that it is much better than i expect. Or maybe since days passed, i have change my preference for food. Usually i was known to be very particular in food (a.k.a Yim Jim). I think mose probably because i age now =p

A box with bun, cake, salmon with some salad, then water, juice and you can get wine or/and coffee.

This is my first meal in the flight and dun worry, there are more to come when i am in the plane to Frankfurt. I ate 4 meals in just 17 hours... wasted nia, cannot finish the food also... =p


My first time to ask for / order wine. DIDN'T finish this cup also, cos i suddenly thought of i am taking medicine for my allergic thingy.. Do not know whether i shud take alcohol ornot, don't wish to die yet... -.-


These are the food served during my flight to Frankfurt! Eat again... We cant finish it anyway, it's such a waste! of food or money huh?? =p

Here we are.. at the Frankfurt Main train station.... SO Freezing COLD!!!
Wear until so thick u see...!!!

And this is the first restaurant we have been brought to, for our lunch! Were pretty hungry, but three person still cannot finish two servings of food...
Forgot to take the picture of the food... -.-
I'll ask from ching then.. till then~bye

Counting Down....倒数七天

Flying on the 1st of March...with this 29inches luggage bag.. ^^

To be frank, this is my first time leaving the country for such a far destination, can i make it, all by my own?? At least i know how to cook a few dishes... *Evidence below* keke
Till now, i still do not have that kind of feeling, feeling that everyone has (i suppose) when they are going to leave his/her home for a long period... 死心了？或心死了？0.O

I do not really know what does this mean, as this is the Japanese Kanji writing. The piece of work which won me a first prize during the language week in campus. Got a pretty gorgeous one, a full set of Japanese Calligraphy Set!! My goodness! =)

“青云大志", Well, I have to grab this opportunity to create more potential in my future life! I MUST!

Here I come......... =)